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    October 07

    要站起來

    這兩個月內發生大大小小的事,有的似乎控制不了,有的令我很失望,但總算頂得住。現在事情已過去,還有少少手尾,要站起來了,成功,我來了!
    July 23

    10 句讓你心有所感的話

    一、沒有一百分的另一半,只有五十分的兩個人。

    二、付出真心,才會得到真心,卻也可能傷得徹底;保持距離,就能保護自己,卻也註定永遠寂寞。

    三、通常願意留下來跟你爭吵的人,才是真正愛你的人

    四、有時候,不是對方不在乎你,而是你把對方看得太重。

    五、冷漠,有時候並不是無情,只是一種避免被傷害的工具。

    六、如果我們之間有 1000 步的距離,你只要跨出第 1 步,我就會朝你的方向走其餘的 999 步。

    七、為你的難過而快樂的,是敵人;為你的快樂而快樂的,是朋友;為你的難過而難過的,就是那些,該放進心裡的人。

    八、就算是 believe,中間也藏了一個 lie。

    九、真正的好朋友,並不是在一起就有聊不完的話題;而是在一起,就算不說話,也不會感到尷尬。

    十、朋友就是被你看透了,還能喜歡你的人。
     
    June 02

    守口如瓶

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    男人失業了。他沒有告訴女人。
    他仍然按時出門和回家。
    他不忘編造一些故事欺騙女人。
    他說新來的主任挺和藹的,新來的女大學生挺清純的……
    女人掐他的耳朵,笑著說,"你小心點。
    "那時他正往外走,女人拉住他幫他整理襯衣的領口。男人夾了公文包,擠上公交車,三站後下來。
    他在公園的長椅上坐定,愁容滿面地看廣場上成群的鴿子。
    到了傍晚,男人換一副笑臉回家。 
    他敲敲門,大聲喊,"我回來啦!"男人這樣堅持了5天。
    5天後,他在一家很小的水泥廠找到一份短工。
    那里環境惡劣,飄揚的粉塵讓他的喉嚨總是乾的。
    勞動強度很大,幹活的時候他累得滿身是汗。
    組長說:"你別幹了,你這身子骨不行。
    "男人說:"我可以。"他緊咬了牙關,兩腿輕輕地抖。
    男人全身沾滿厚厚的粉塵,他像一尊活動的疲勞的泥。 
    下了班,男人在工廠匆匆洗個澡,換上筆挺的西裝,扮一身輕盈回家。
    他敲敲門,大聲喊,"我回來啦!"
    女人就奔過來開門。滿屋蔥花的香味,讓男人心安。
    飯桌上女人問他"工作順心嗎?"
    他說:"順心,新來的女大學生挺清純。"女人嗔怒,卻給男人夾一筷子木耳。
    女人說,"水開了,要洗澡嗎?" 
    男人說:"洗過了,和同事洗完桑拿回來的。"女人輕哼著歌,開始收拾碗碟。
    男人想:好險,差一點被識破。
    疲憊的男人匆匆洗臉刷牙,然後倒頭就睡。男人在那個水泥廠幹了二十多天。
    快到月底了。
    他不知道那可憐的一點工資能不能騙過女人。
    那天晚飯後,女人突然說:"你別在那個公司上班了吧,我知道有個公司在招聘,幫你打聽了,所有要求你都符合,明天去試試?" 
    男人一陣狂喜,卻說,"為什麼要換呢?"
    女人說,"換個環境不很好嗎?再說這家待遇很不錯呢。"
    于是第二天,男人去應聘,結果被順利錄取。
    那天,男人燒了很多菜,也喝了很多酒。
    他知道,這一切其實瞞不過女人的。
    或許從去水泥廠上班那天,或許從他丟掉工作那天,女人就知道了真相。
    是他躲閃的眼神出賣了他嗎?
    是他疲憊的身體出賣了他嗎?
    是女人從窗口看到他坐上了相反方向的公共汽車嗎?
    還是他故作輕松的神態太過拙劣和誇張?
    他可以編造故事騙他的女人,但卻無法讓心細的女人相信。
     
    其實,當一個人深愛著對方時,有什麼事能瞞過去呢?男人回想這二十多天來,每天,飯桌上都有一盤木耳炒蛋。
    男人知道木耳可以清肺。
    粉塵飛揚中的男人需要一盤木耳炒蛋。
    有時女人會逼他吃掉兩勺梨膏。
    男人想,那也是女人精心的策劃。
    還有,這些日子女人不再纏著他陪她看電視連續劇,因為他是那樣疲憊。現在男人完全相信女人早就知曉了他的秘密,她默默地為他做著事,卻從來不揭開它。
    事業如日中天的男人突然失業,變得一文不名,這是一個秘密。是男人的,也是她的。她必須咬著痛,守口如瓶。她不能讓任何人知道,包括制造秘密的男人。男人站在陽台看城市的夜景,終有一滴眼淚落下。

    婚姻生活中,有一種感動叫相親相愛,

    有一種感動叫相濡以沫。

    其實還有一種感動,叫做守口如瓶。
    May 31

    My Fortun Cookie

     
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    Free Software

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    October 21

    Threesomes

    Threesomes

     

    Three times the pleasure, three times the fun, or just three times more trouble than you need right now?

     

    The threesome (AKA the menage a trois) is a very common fantasy. Three people (any combination of males or females) having sex with each other in a kind of 'mini-orgy', if you like. The big question is whether you should you act on this fantasy, or just file the idea away with a big box of tissues for a rainy day.

    What's your motivation?

    The most common reason for wanting one is the idea of trying something new, and having more to look at and feel. Some people want to have twice as much attention as they normally get during sex. Others may be drawn to threesomes because it's 'forbidden', or just because of the idea of horny sex without romantic attachment.

    The wrong attitude

    Some people try to push reluctant boyfriends/girlfriends into threesomes that they don't really want to do. Sometimes it's a selfish power trip, and sometimes it's just an excuse for being unfaithful without getting dumped. Think very carefully about any partner who doesn't respect your feelings - do you really want to be in a relationship with someone like that? Agreeing to take part in a threesome to breathe life back into a failing relationship, or to stop your partner from leaving you, is probably going to backfire.

    It can all go horribly wrong...

    Problems are most likely to arise when two of the people involved are in a long-term relationship together. You may be in for a nasty shock when insecurities ('she wants an extra partner because I'm not good enough in bed') or jealousies ('he wants her more than he wants me') blow up. You could also find out that your so-called straight partner is really gay or bisexual, but hasn't got around to telling you about it. Yet. And you could end up with one person you really fancy, plus a right minger, who you obviously don't.

    Safety first

    If you do decide to throw caution to the wind, don't forget about safe sex. As always, keep your wits about you and be careful if you decide to get it on with people you don't really know. Trust your instincts and don't take risks with your personal safety.

    So, how do you do it?

    Some people try threesomes with their friends, some people advertise for partners, and others go to swingers' clubs and parties. As for the actual sex, there's no 'right way' or running order for proceedings, so you just have to use your imagination and make it up as you go along.

    Preventing the fall out

    We've already established it's more to do with lust than a loving relationship, so don't have any romantic expectations, and you won't be disappointed in that area. Oh, and never involve someone that you work with.

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