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Threesomes
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The threesome (AKA the menage a trois) is a very common fantasy. Three people (any combination of males or females) having sex with each other in a kind of 'mini-orgy', if you like. The big question is whether you should you act on this fantasy, or just file the idea away with a big box of tissues for a rainy day. What's your motivation? The most common reason for wanting one is the idea of trying something new, and having more to look at and feel. Some people want to have twice as much attention as they normally get during sex. Others may be drawn to threesomes because it's 'forbidden', or just because of the idea of horny sex without romantic attachment. The wrong attitude Some people try to push reluctant boyfriends/girlfriends into threesomes that they don't really want to do. Sometimes it's a selfish power trip, and sometimes it's just an excuse for being unfaithful without getting dumped. Think very carefully about any partner who doesn't respect your feelings - do you really want to be in a relationship with someone like that? Agreeing to take part in a threesome to breathe life back into a failing relationship, or to stop your partner from leaving you, is probably going to backfire. It can all go horribly wrong... Problems are most likely to arise when two of the people involved are in a long-term relationship together. You may be in for a nasty shock when insecurities ('she wants an extra partner because I'm not good enough in bed') or jealousies ('he wants her more than he wants me') blow up. You could also find out that your so-called straight partner is really gay or bisexual, but hasn't got around to telling you about it. Yet. And you could end up with one person you really fancy, plus a right minger, who you obviously don't. Safety first If you do decide to throw caution to the wind, don't forget about safe sex. As always, keep your wits about you and be careful if you decide to get it on with people you don't really know. Trust your instincts and don't take risks with your personal safety. So, how do you do it? Some people try threesomes with their friends, some people advertise for partners, and others go to swingers' clubs and parties. As for the actual sex, there's no 'right way' or running order for proceedings, so you just have to use your imagination and make it up as you go along. Preventing the fall out We've already established it's more to do with lust than a loving relationship, so don't have any romantic expectations, and you won't be disappointed in that area. Oh, and never involve someone that you work with. |
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聰明與高明
聰明是向外開拓，高明是往內尋求。
聰明是用頭腦思考，高明是用心去想。
聰明是用比例尺畫出精密的設計圖，高明是無所為而為的隨手塗鴉。
聰明是乾旱時的造雨機，淹水後的抽水機，高明是隨時隨地保持雲淡風輕。
聰明是在一杯咖啡裡變化出數種花樣，高明是從一盞清水中感覺出單純的甘甜。
聰明是天生的優勢，高明則靠後天的修養。
如果不夠聰明，沒關係，你至少可以把自己的靈魂鍛鍊得更高明。
是的，這裡就說到重點了：聰明的人可以折服別人，高明的人卻能擺平自己。
小時候，你曾經對別的小孩炫耀：看，我有你沒有。
你有的可能是一只風車，一個洋娃娃或一隻彩色筆。
長大後，你卻開始羨慕你的朋友：唉，他有我沒有。
別人有的可能是一份理想的工作，一樁受寵的感情或一種優渥的生活。
孩子氣的炫耀是天真，成人式的羨慕卻不免幼稚了。
其實你也有很多寶貴的東西是別人沒有的呀！
例如說，你可能有堅固的牙齒，當別人只能吃西瓜時，你卻能啃甘蔗；
你可能有修長手指，當別人只能吹口琴時，你卻能彈鋼琴。
也許當你羨慕著別人時，別人也在羨慕著你呢！
每個人都是這世界上獨一無二的存在，沒有誰比誰更幸運，也沒有誰比誰更尊貴。
人生在世，不過是跟著因緣走，而因緣向來是生滅無常的。
所以，擁有無須歡喜，因為擁有就代表了有失去的可能；
沒有也不必難過，因為沒有才有機會去獲得。
在得失之間，無所謂好與壞，一切不過是跟著因緣走。
保持一顆心的自由自在，輕輕鬆鬆跟著因緣走吧。
當你能夠把世事無常看透，也就是你真正長大（高明）的時候。
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平等的愛
眾人正忖度老鼠大概已經走光了，可以上前打掃之際，卻見有兩隻老鼠仍在洞口處推擠逼碰，然後再幾經辛苦，雙雙才出得了來。可是很奇怪，兩隻老鼠出了洞口以後，卻不立時逃走，而是在洞口附近團團轉的互相追趕，像是要咬對方的尾巴似的。
眾人都希奇是什麼緣故，於是走上前去細看，這才發現~原來其中一隻老鼠是瞎眼的，看不見東西的，而另一隻老鼠正設法使對方咬著自己的尾巴，然後帶領同伴一起逃走。眾人見狀，都默然不語，各自陷進了沉思當中。
吃飯的時候，眾人又圍著坐下，有人開始討論剛才的兩隻老鼠。嚴肅的羅馬官長說：『我認為剛才的兩隻老鼠是君臣主僕的關係。』眾人思考一會後，都說：『原來如此』。於是羅馬官兵擺出一副高傲孤芳的模樣。
聰明的以色列人說：『我認為剛才的兩隻老鼠是夫婦的關系。』眾人 又思考了一會，覺得不錯，連聲稱是，於是以色列人變成了一副飄飄然得意的嘴臉。
強調孝義的中國人說：『我認為剛才的兩隻老鼠是母子的關係。』眾人又思考了一會，更覺合理，又都連聲稱讚，於是中國人的臉上立時堆滿了專業的謙虛。
呆頭呆腦的撒瑪利亞人，卻蹲在地上雙手托著下巴，呆呆的望著眾人，問道：『為什麼兩隻老鼠一定要有什麼關係呢？』
空氣在剎那之間靜止凝固了。眾人呆呆的望著這個呆呆的撒瑪利亞人，不發一語。卻見先前說話的羅馬官長、以色列人和中國人都臉有慚色地低下頭不敢作聲。
愛，原來不是建基於利益、情義和血緣的關係上，而是需要建基於「即使沒有任何關係」。
小心讀每一個，再用兩秒想一想
1.我愛你不是因為你是誰，而是我在你面前可以是誰。
2.沒有男人或女人是值得你為他流眼淚，值得的那一位，不會要你哭。
3.那人不是你所想般愛你，但不代表那人不是全心全意地愛你。
4.一個真正的朋友是向著你伸手，觸動你心靈的人。
5.掛念一個人最差的方式，就是你坐在他身旁，而知道你不能擁有他。
6.就算你不快樂也不要皺眉，因為你永不知道誰會愛上你的笑容。
7.在世界裡你可能只是某人，但對某人你可能是全世界。
8.不要花時間在一個不會花時間在你身上的人。
9.可能神要我們在遇到那位對的人之前先遇上一些錯的人，讓我們遇到那位對先生/對小姐時懂得珍惜。
10.不要因為完結而哭，要為曾經發生而微笑。
11.這個世界永遠也會有一些傷害你的人，你要做的就是繼續去信人和小心你下次信的人。
12.在你嘗試了解其他人和盼望其他人明白你之前，先把你自己變成一個更好的人和了解你自己。
13.不要太努力去找，最好的東西是在你最預計不到的時候出現。
緊記:
所有事也是因果循環的。
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